Don't Get Burned

America's Economic Meltdown Avoid the Burn

Now is the time more than ever for us to SAVE OUR MONEY. However, we are receiving mixed messages from the media and pop culture.

On the one hand, you got pop songs glamorizing designer clothes and being famous. You got videos with rappers talking constantly about their rims and jewelry (most of which are either leased or borrowed.)

But then today, you hear on the news that we are in a state of economic crisis. Which one is it? Is America broke or what?!

Well, as far as me and my household, we are saving our money. Here are my tips on how to overcome this economic meltdown without getting burned in the process. I am not in anyway a professional financial adviser, so do your own homework. However, I've used these tips and they are working for me. As an actress, we know that money doesn't always come in. So it's very important to manage the money you have and help it grow.

The first step I'm taking is opening up more secure funds (i.e. Roth IRAs and CDs). If you can roll over your 401K I say do it. Also, closing accounts with weak banks like Wachovia. I saw them getting ready to tank months ago. Not a surprise to me. Their fees are murder, and most of the tellers in my neighborhood are rude. If you have a Wachovia account, take out your money, and use a better, more stable bank. For example, ING Direct or HSBC.

My household is adopting a wealthy approach to financial security. Notice I said wealthy, not rich. There's a fundamental difference. Everybody needs to put a chunk of money into a safe deposit box. That way, if the ATM/credit cards freeze up, you can still access liquid cash. Or, buy a fire proof safe and put it in your house. No, under the mattress won't do!

And if you are a credit card junky, you are about to go through serious withdrawal. You should NEVER BE FULLY DEPENDENT ON USING CREDIT CARDS. That is not your money! You are borrowing money to use and then paying it back, with interest. Be warned, your interest rate is about to go up, up, up. As such, it's not smart to be dependent on credit cards. Use them only for major needs like gas, groceries, air fare, hotels, etc. Not to go clubbin' or eat at fast food joints.

If you don't have at least $20 in your wallet; on the regular for stuff like that, you shouldn't be in the damn club any way! And fast food is not good for you.

Here's a simple rule for using credit cards. I learned some of these tips by trial and error, and others by reading financial guidance books. If you can't afford to pay off the bill, IN FULL, every month when the bill comes...YOU DON'T NEED TO BE USING THEM! Simple rule.

Why? Because your broke butt can't afford it. You should either pay it off when the bill is due or before the closing date on your statement. What's a closing date you say?

That's the date the credit card company reports your debt to the credit agencies (i.e. Experian, Trans Union etc.). So, if your bill is due on say the 9th, pay as much as you can on time. Your statement closing date would be approximately on the 21st, so BEFORE that date comes, (at least 4 days before) make an online payment, directly on the credit card company's website, or online with your bank. Pay the bill off, or least make absolutely sure, that you NEVER OWE MORE THAN 30% OF YOUR CREDIT LINE.

So, if your credit line is $300, you shouldn't owe more than $90 when the statement closes. If your credit line is $3,000, you shouldn't owe more than $900 when the statement closes. Why?

Because that is your credit to debt ratio. If you owe more than 30% every month you are saying you can't afford to pay the bill off every month. And for those of you who want to buy a house, refinance, buy a car, etc., THAT IS NOT A GOOD SIGN TO A LENDER. Moreover, it keeps you enslaved to the credit card system that is designed to entrap you into debt. They are not trying to help you. So be smart. And whatever you do, DO NOT OPEN A DEPARTMENT STORE CREDIT CARD. The teaser to save you 10% on your first purchase is a set-up!

Speaking of which, we should all curb our spending at the mall and stores. Get only what you need and leave the rest behind. How many handbags, jeans, shoes, and necklaces do you need? Stop being greedy, vain...and naive.

Discipline yourself to treat yourself once a month, but not more than that. Set a dollar amount, and pay with cash, not a credit card. Don't give your money away. SAVE IT!

Bottom line, the only way for the average American to get through this mess, that "the man" created (yeah, I said it!), is to save our money. And not all in one place. Diversify. Remember what I said about safe deposit boxes, Roth IRAs, and CDs?

A golden rule for saving income is to save at least 30% of our monthly take home pay. Start with your next pay check. What can you eliminate in order to achieve that goal? Learn how to do your own nails and hair for a change; or at least cut back on salon visits. Skip out on unnecessary spending. And please people, write yourself a budget. If you need help on that, let me know. My household's spending plan is easy to follow and affective.

Okay, so some of you are saying, "Mahogany, girl I got bills, I can't save money right now."

My answer to that is YOU CAN'T AFFORD NOT TO SAVE MONEY RIGHT NOW!

If you can't save 30% of your paycheck, you can do 20%, no less than 10%. NO EXCUSES.

Do that for EVERY PAY CHECK until January 1. The money you save is not to be spent. You are building an emergency fund in case you get ill or laid-off. Again, I repeat, save your money. You can't be dependent on your job or credit cards. That's a very unwise way of living.

A lot of folks only think about paying bills, but you have to pay yourself FIRST. Don't get me wrong, keep your bills current. BUT, do not be broke. It's not smart. Most utility companies will set up a payment plan or structured charges. Call them and ask. And for those of you who are addicted to cell phones, be smart, do not go over your minutes. More importantly, you don't have to spend hundreds of dollars on a cell phone. Who are you trying to impress?

When you make a mistake and drop your fancy phone, or leave it in the bathroom while washing your hands, you just flushed money down the drain. I've used Virgin Mobile pre-pay phones for years. They're cute and stylish (like me) and I control my bill. How fabulous…and smart.

For actors and models this means keeping track of your expenses for auditions. Plus it means striving to get paid gigs to off-set your expenses, and ultimately earn a living doing what you love. If the gig doesn't pay a performance salary, at least negotiate being reimbursed for your travel expenses, meals, and any special wardrobe you buy for the production. Don't think for a second that this mess our country is in doesn't affect you. It does!

I am glad the "bail out bill" failed. They made their bed, let them sleep in it. All we have to do is make sure we don't get bed bugs in the process.

Now that's real talk.

Need help making a spending plan/budget? Let me know.

Have your own building wealth tips? Share.

My final piece of guidance, do not be a slave to money.
Money can't buy you love or happiness.

...and those my friend are priceless.

Be blessed and stay encouraged,

Mahogany

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Preparing for Your Blessing

Did you know that every blessing you experience is designed just for you? Your blessings have your name on them! One of the best ways to enjoy those blessings is to be prepared to receive them. Let me tell you how I prepare for every acting job I get—even before I get it.

After my last big acting job; the independent film “The Boy with the Sun in His Eyes”, I decided to take a much needed breather. Filming that movie was a lot of hard work! I’m telling you, my body was sore to the bone, and my emotions were drained. “The Boy…” was my first leading role in a feature length film so I was a bit surprised at how exhausting the process would be.

Before I landed this job, I was preparing for it. I read several acting books, such as Michael Caine’s Acting in Film, and Act Now! by Peter Jazwinski (both are excellent tools). In these books, I learned some valuable tips of the trade. The books helped me prepare for my audition and ultimately being blessed with the leading lady role.

It took several weeks to film this movie (a portion in the States and the rest in Europe) and afterwards I was worn out. I couldn’t imagine jumping right into another big role, so I opted to take a hiatus. Now, don’t get me wrong, I didn’t flop on the sofa, and stuff my face with Pop Secret, while watching my favorite movie (well…at least not every night). During my hiatus I prepared for my next blessing. For me, that meant getting in shape—mentally and physically.

My mental work outs included reading good acting books like Caine’s and Jazwinski’s. And before bed, or when I first woke up, I grabbed Power of a Praying Woman by Stormie Omartian. All of these books kept me mentally alert and spiritually refreshed. When I act, I wrap myself around my character. So after being “Solange”; this vivacious former pop-diva, turned hit woman, I needed to recharge/restart my mind.

And during my hiatus, when I wasn’t stimulating my brain, I was working out my muscles.

LL Cool J’s fitness book came out just in time. I started the book in January, and continue to use it today. It’s the blue print to my 3-4 day a week workout regime. LL Cool J’s Platinum Workout is an awesome book, and I look forward to meeting him again, and saying “Thank you LL!” In a matter of weeks, I saw my body transform, plus I got stronger, and had more energy. As an actress, I want to not only give my best acting performance, but I want to look my best on camera. So that means staying in shape, even when I don’t have an acting gig.

I always want to be prepared. And you should be prepared too!

Often times, we as performing artist get discouraged when we don’t get a job we auditioned for. Then we crawl into a corner and lick our wounds. Stop it! When you don’t get a role, don’t take it personal. You may not realize it, but “rejection is God’s protection”. Instead of feeling like a failure (which you are not) prepare for your next blessing. Every blessing for your life; be it acting or otherwise, has your name on it. No one can take it away from you. In fact, you are the only person that can stand in the way. You can be your own biggest obstacle and worst enemy by living in doubt, fear, depression, and worry.

God has a wonderful plan for your career. All you have to do is prepare and have faith.

During my hiatus, I kept my ear to the street, and checked the casting/breakdown service sites. I didn’t apply for roles that I felt wouldn’t stimulate or challenge me. Besides, I’d just got off the plane from filming a movie in fabulous Europe, with an amazing cast and crew, so my bar was raised, and my expectations were higher. I knew that the next role I accepted had to be for something equally awesome. And until that opportunity presented itself, I decided to prepare.

By brushing up on my acting skills and working out with LL Cool J (well, not literally, but that would be beyond cool), I was preparing myself for my blessing. I knew that the next acting job was right around the corner, and I wanted to be ready for it.

I encourage you to always be ready as well.

When you least expect it, a wonderful role will come your way, so don’t be caught off guard. Be prepared to receive the blessing that God has in store for you. If you know you’re out of shape, then put down the pizza, get LL’s book, and get in shape. If your acting skills are a little rusty, or need a tune-up, pick up a good acting book, or take a class.

But whatever you do, do not choose to do nothing.

This philosophy works not only for someone in the arts, but life in general. Every day is another chance to improve and prepare. If you are like me, you are always seeking a new challenge. Preparation will therefore be a key component of your success. I’m willing to bet that some of the top actors in Hollywood continuously prepare for their next role.

I challenge you to do the same. Sure, you may not be a top actor…yet. So stay prepared, because the best is yet to come. Be ready when it does.

See you at the top!

Be blessed and stay encouraged,

Mahogany

p.s. Other up-and-coming actors will benefit from your feedback. Your posted comments are appreciated.

Invitation to join "Models and Actors of Faith" by Mahogany Reynolds

As a model and actress of faith I believe it is essential to keep God first. In this industry we face many challenges, a lot of rejection, and pressure. Yet, with God as the head of our life, as our number one agent; and the one we turn to for career guidance, we are destined for great things. Join my blog group "Models and Actors of Faith" as I share my experiences; both good and bad, through inspirational blog-columns. While this blog group is geared towards those in the acting and modeling industry; people from all career genres are invited to join as well.

I welcome you with open arms, a humble heart, and a word that I pray will enrich your life...and inspire you to dream big!

Truly, Mahogany Reynolds

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Let go, and Let God

Over the course of my journey as a model; and now an up-and-coming actress, I have experienced many let downs and disappointments. The entertainment industry can be a scary and cold place...if you're not prepared.


Ever look outside your bedroom window when you wake up; say in the fall, and you see the sun shining and say, "Looks warm outside..." So, against your better judgment, you step outside without the protection of a warm jacket? And then WHAM! That cold air hits you and your body starts to quiver. If you're lucky, you'll have time to run back in the house and get your coat. If you're rushing, you'll be forced to endure the chill, unprotected, and most likely, get sick.


This is metaphor of what can happen to us (artist, models, performers, writers, and the like) when we go into this industry unprotected.


I for one I'm sick of getting sick. So I'm learning to let go, and let God.


You see, in life, God places people in your path for a season, a reason, or a lifetime. It is up to us to enjoy the time we have with others. We never know when the relationship may come to an end. God always has a plan. ALWAYS. So we must be open to God's plan, and allow God to govern our actions, and navigate our path.


Whenever I've tried to handle things totally on my own, rather it's regarding my career as a performing artist, or even in my personal life, I always end up making the wrong decision. It's important to stay under the umbrella of God's mercy, wisdom, and grace.


Stepping out from under that safety may cause you to get struck by lighting. Ouch! That doesn't feel too good.


I believe that God blessed me with all this creative talent for a reason. For a purpose that is much bigger than me.


One of my favorite biblical scriptures is "May he grant you the desires of your heart, and fulfill all your purpose."


I am encouraged by that, because not only will God give you the desires of your heart, but in the process, he will lead you into your purpose. I encourage you to always seek God's guidance before, during, and after making decisions in your career. God knows what's best for you. God will never lead you astray, or give you a task that you can't handle.

And when someone does you wrong, don't be quick to lash out. Be firm and professional, but don't seek revenge. Instead, hold your head up high, knowing that if you are letting go, and letting God that: "No weapon formed against you shall prosper."

For those of you that are not in the entertainment industry, this message is still relevant. Good jobs that bring fulfillment are hard to find. (and in this troubled economy; hard to keep). Trust me, I know. Plus, strong relationships are challenging to build. And happiness can be fleeting.

My testimony to you is to never give up. I say that a lot. Those who know me personally hear that from me every other day. Many times, they may hear me saying it to myself! I'm a strong woman, but I get weak too.

We all have a purpose and a story to tell. A light that was planted inside of us before birth. I encourage you to stay under God's protective umbrella and invite him to guide your career.

I am learning that God is the BEST agent one could ever have.

Be blessed and stay encouraged,

Mahogany Reynolds

Stay in Shape and You'll Stay on Top: Benefits of Fitness

I admire LL Cool J as a father, husband, rapper, actor, and author. When I heard about his new book last year focused on fitness I rushed out to get my hands on a copy. Once I got past the lure of the hot cover and attractive photos of half-naked LL; I put my fantasies aside, and began to actually read the book. I was very impressed. The book outlines in several phases (beginning with bronze leading to platinum) how one can enhance their body and get in shape. I started the program immediately.

As a model and actress, being in shape is something I have always valued. Those of us in the modeling industry know that others are drawn to us by our physical appearance first—then our talent. That’s how the entertainment business is. As for me, I love my body and have always worked out; especially my legs which are my signature. After being bored with my exercise routine I decided to adopt the program outlined in LL’s book. The outcome is something like a phenomenon! LL Cool J’s Platinum Workout is a great book with easy to follow instructions. I started the program in March 2007 and I immediately saw improvements in my muscle tone and strength.

Despite the vanity of the modeling world, being physically fit is not something I do to impress others. It’s something I do in honor of my temple. The word of God says that “our body houses the Holy Spirit” and that we should respect, care for, and honor it. When I met LL to conduct an interview a few years back; I remember how he often made spiritual references in relation to health and fitness. He too understands the connection between the body, the spirit, and God. Moreover, when we honor our body we glorify God. (*see: I Corinthians 6:19-20).

However, in today’s microwave society; where most people live a sedentary lifestyle, it is easier to lounge on the couch and play video games or flip through cable, verses going to the gym to work out. Typically, folks are more prone to hit the gym right after Thanksgiving and Christmas in hopes of shedding the fried turkey and mashed potatoes off their tummy and thighs. Then there’s the spring fling with fitness for those who want a beach body in time for summer. But what about the rest of the year?

Obesity in this country is increasing. Studies show how being over weight can cause severe medical problems; especially in children (*see: http://www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/obesity/index.htm). For a hot second, the media tried to deflect our attention to this matter with an onslaught of stories about the “Skinny Model Ban”. A lot of my friends and family (even my former agent) asked me how I felt about the ban and I replied, “It’s ridiculous!” While it’s true that anorexia and bulimia are serious illnesses; the one-sided media coverage on the topic, gave people license to be ignorant and prejudice towards models that are naturally thin. Which sparked a pointless debate on rather or not being thin is better. That is purely subjective. However, I work with kids part-time and witness every day the ones who are overweight and can’t run one lap around the playground without falling out in fatigue. And while some are a product of their genes, there are many who are simple not viewing their body as a temple. Including the thin people of the world.

So how do we overcome this? By embracing knowledge and making changes.

For example, last spring Tavis Smiley (talk show host and author of The Covenant with Black America) held a health, fitness and wellness expo in California called “Road to Health”, geared towards communities of color. TV personality Dr. Ian Smith, along with performing artists; such as Patti LaBelle, Omarion, and Steve Harvey, joined the effort to encourage people to adopt a healthy lifestyle (www.50millionpounds.com).

And that’s what it’s all about; being healthy and fit.

I think it would be a good idea; for a group of models to come together, and start an initiative towards healthy living. I have not heard of any such movement, but if you know of one, please share. And I’m not talking about a super-model boo-wooing over tabloid photos. That’s not a movement. That’s protection of self-image. There needs to be a band of models willing to come forward and say, “Yes, we are thin, but we are healthy and here’s how we stay fit.” I’m willing to jump start this initiative; and if you are in the modeling industry and wish to come on board, send me your comments.

Whenever I decide to post a blog it comes from a very personal place. I share my inner-most thoughts and personal experiences with you as a testimony. The day I committed to finishing LL’s work out book I immediately felt better about myself—and not merely from a physical perspective, but spiritual. Again, this blog is not about rather or not being thin is better. I don’t subscribe to hatin’ on people for not looking like me; even though I sometimes get that treatment in reverse. And that comes from someone not feeling secure in their own skin! When you’re a hater, it’s never about the other person, it’s always about you.

Rather you are naturally slender or heavy-set is not the point. What matters is how you treat your temple. Are you eating healthy foods on a regular basis? The lettuce and tomato on that Wendy’s cheeseburger doesn’t count! Do you work out at least two-three times a week? Walking to the mall entrance from a parking space won’t cut it! Do you pray for health and healing over your body? Waiting until you befall sick is naïve! Are you contributing to the stereotypes by under or over eating? Either option is fatal to your health!

God equipped our bodies with every thing it needs to be healthy and strong. In fact, the body is a natural healer and knows how to repair itself. We are the ones who pollute our temples with foods packed with unnecessary unhealthy ingredients like "high fructose corn syrup". What ever happened to natural sugar!

It’s time for a change. What we must do is strive to live a lifestyle that is rooted in health and fitness. Anything contrary to that will lead to medical problems and even depression.

While my blog is addressed to models, the principles apply to everyone. Being healthy and in shape gives you a spiritual lift. It causes you to see yourself in a more positive light. It gives you energy. It improves your sleep. It enhances your love life. It uplifts your attitude. Clears up your skin and makes your hair grow. The benefits of living a healthy lifestyle are worthwhile, but the side affects of doing the opposite are costly.

I encourage you to eat healthy, join a fitness center, or dust off your at home gym equipment. Take a step towards honoring your temple. Don’t starve yourself and don’t stuff yourself! Take care of yourself! You’ll be glad you did. Besides, have you ever heard anyone say they regret being healthy and in shape? Start today to improve your tomorrow and enrich your future.

As for me, I am enjoying LL’s workout book. And I’m looking more fabulous every day!

Be blessed and stay healthy,

Mahogany Reynolds

Models, Create Your Own Break!

I began my modeling career in Detroit at the tender age of twelve. Boy oh boy did I have long legs as a kid. And since I didn’t like sports I opted to use my slender build and unusual height for modeling. I remember being teased by hapless, unattractive, insecure girls growing up on the east side of Detroit. I never allowed their ignorance to diminish my self-love. And even to this day; especially with the ridiculous controversy between fat models verses slim models, I remain confident.

If you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will.

I fled Detroit after graduating college in pursuit of something deeper, more adventurous; which lead me to New York several years ago. Since that time, I have grown as a model and developed skills as an actress. Sometimes I look through my current modeling portfolio, filled with 9X12 beautiful images, and compare them to my old book from Michigan. Gee whiz, talk about night and day. When I was modeling in Detroit and then Grand Rapids, the modeling industry in Michigan was extremely conservative. And my old body of work reflected that “girl next door” thing. Now my book continues to evolve and my range is wider. Thank God! That’s why I left Michigan. To expand my range. I had outgrown my home town.

So for me, being booked as a model in Detroit Fashion Week 2007 was a big deal. It was not just a runway show for me. It was a chance to reach back into my beginning. And to perhaps inspire some little long-leg girl in Detroit that it’s okay to dream. In fact, your life depends on it. With out dreams and aspirations, you risk living a mundane pseudo happy existence. I believe in creating your own destiny.

A lot of models; and especially lay people, ask me, “Mahogany, how do you book work like this without an agent?” My response is “I am my best agent!” Upon my arrival from La Guardia airport in New York to Detroit, on a Thursday afternoon in September, this inquisitive woman approached me and committed, “I saw you walking into the waiting area for the flight and I said to myself, ‘she must be a model’. Are you?” I smiled and confirmed her assumption. This lead to a mini-interview about my career. We chatted for a while as we walked to pick up our luggage and inside my head I was thinking, “I wonder if she’s a modeling agent in town for the show?” So I asked her, but she disappointed me by being some sort of salesperson instead. As a matter of fact, she tried to get me to join her company, said there were always looking for bright ambitious people. I politely declined her offer. The chat with the curious woman is what inspired me to write this blog.

For me, creating your own destiny means not waiting around for other people to make things happen. I remember this motto from my days working as a marketing executive in Michigan “Some people make things happen, some people wait for things to happen, and some people wonder what happened.” [I’m paraphrasing here, but you get the idea].

When I was modeling in Michigan I had a great agent named Jennifer. She was very motivated to book me work. In fact, thanks to Jennifer’s amazing networking skills, I landed several TV commercial gigs; including a national one for GE. That was so awesome! She also booked me runway work and print work. I was working so much as a model during the week; that I finally decided to quit my 9-5, which led me to New York. I wanted to challenge myself to see if I could “make it in New York” as the cliché goes.

Of course I realized that New York is a tough and huge market, over saturated with aspiring models, and that I’d have to be patient while learning to navigate unfamiliar territory. Being a waitress was not my thing, so I opted to use my business savvy and college degree to get me stabilized. And during my first few years on the east coast I unfortunately got side tracked with my day job. Happens all the time. You go somewhere in pursuit of a dream and bills get in the way. Don’t get me wrong, I did try to break into the New York modeling market, but to be honest, perhaps not hard enough. So after a few years I looked myself in the mirror and said, “Mahogany, it’s time to get focused girl! Remember why you came out here!” I said my farewell to a rather good marketing manager position in the entertainment industry and promised myself to find an agent and get busy.

Come to find out, finding a good agent in New York became a full-time job in and of itself! And I’ve had more agents than Elizabeth Taylor has had husbands. Oh my God talk about coming a dime and dozen. Just when I thought I had a good one; the agent either quit from burn out, or got fired for incompetence. I began to feel like I was wasting my time trying to convince some modeling agency to take me on. Sometimes I’d go to an open-call and hear snide remarks like “Dahhling, your look is great, but we already have someone like you.” Or I’d hear, “Sweetheart, you’re lovely, but come back in six months.” Sometimes I wanted to haul off and slap them. It was extremely frustrating. And after months of scouting, I registered with two agencies; but to my dismay just when I began to book work, the agency shut down. I was like “DAMN IT!”

I soon discovered that if you don’t take a bite out of the Big Apple it will surely take the bite out of you. I am not the type to wait for someone else to validate, motivate, or elevate me. So I started to freelance and create my own destiny. And that’s when the opportunities began to flow. My book grew, my network expanded, and despite not being “signed” by one of the big agencies, I was booking work enough to satisfy my desires. And that is very important. You must set your own measurement of success!

Whenever I chat with others models I always tell them three things: 1. You are your own best agent, 2. Have a list of goals, and 3.) Don’t let the industry change you, as Shakespeare once said, “To thine own self be true.”

My journey as a model is colored with highs, lows, seasons of abundance, times of drought, periods of joy, and days of drama. I count it all as wonderful. All of these things add to my character and resilience. And now that I reflect back, I am glad that I am not one to embellish and say, “Oh, I was just eating a hot dog in Central Park and an agent said, ‘do you want to be a model’…” That cliché is so annoying and borderline absurd to me; despite being true for a very very very small few. Breaking into the modeling business is not a walk in the park. It requires tenacity, hard work, creativity, agility (physically and mentally), patience, persistence, MONEY, and dedication. And for me personally, the number one attribute is faith.

It is my faith in God that keeps me lifted up in an industry that continuously dismisses, disregards, disrespects, and discriminates against models of color. Despite our society moving forward in years the mentality of many people in positions of power in the modeling world are headed backwards. And sadly; not backwards to the 70s, 80s, and 90s, when Black models were not only sought after, but revered and elevated. We have reached a negative paradigm shift in the modeling industry where by many top designers and top agencies do not feel the need to cast or sign Black models. The lack of women of color on the runways of Fashion Week in New York is sound evidence of this. First the ridiculous ban of “skinny models” on the runway last year; and now the extreme lack of Black models this year. It’s a shame.

This is why I was so excited and grateful for Detroit Fashion Week. I got the chance to rip the runway in my hometown and model for great designers (up-and-coming and established). I didn’t have to sit at home mournful because I didn’t get cast in New York Fashion Week. One day I will be. In the meantime, I took my fierce walk to Detroit. The place where it all began for me when I modeled in my first fashion show at twelve. I got this job by networking. Simple as that. No agent. Just me. And I will land the next job, and the next job…and the next job the same way. Having an agent can be a good asset to a model’s career (and actors too for that matter) but, and hear me clearly: IT IS NOT THE ONLY WAY!

If you truly have a desire to build your modeling career, do not sit idle and wait for someone else to give you a break, CREATE YOUR OWN BREAK. I’m a living testimony that with faith and dedication the sky is the limit on what you can achieve in life. God blessed each of us with talents, and planted a seed of vision in each of us. It’s up to us to nurture that seed and help it grow. Do I want a good agent? Sure, who wouldn’t? But until I am led to that agent I will be my own best agent. And so far, I’m doing a heck of a job. Thank God!

Be blessed and stay encouraged,

Mahogany Reynolds

How to Overcome a Horrible Audition

On Monday, February 4, I attended the Sean John fashion show casting and it was unbelievable.

While surfing Myspace on Friday, February 1, I came across two bulletin post from the Sean "P. Diddy" Combs Myspace page:

I am looking for beautiful African American models for my upcoming Sean John fashion next week, check out my blog for all of the details!!
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God Bless
P.Diddy
God is the Greatest

I clicked on the blog and viewed the video casting on MyspaceTv and on YouTube. He was calling for all black models; with our without experience, to come out to his open call. He even inspired us to be aggressive and submit our photos to his office. His casting message seemed sincere and genuine. And since I love runway modeling I decided to attend. I was very excited, only to be extremely disappointed.

Early in the morning, on Monday, February 4, I arrived at the Sean John clothing line corporate offices to audition for his upcoming fashion show in New York. Upon arriving to 1710 Broadway; I joined a line that had already formed, and eventually snaked around the block. About 100 models with hope in their eyes, heels on their feet (or in there handbags), and portfolios tucked away to protect it from the snowy rain; stood outside the Bad Boy Entertainment offices, cold and frost bitten, yet excited and hopeful.

I chatted with a few of the models, and discovered that many of them had traveled by car, bus, or train for several hours to attend this casting. One female model I met drove nine hours from North Carolina for the audition. A male model said he endured a four hour bus ride from Washington D.C. to audition for Sean John. We stood outside; some of us huddled together for warmth, waiting until 9 a.m. to be let in for the audition; which according to the video casting was from 9 to 11 a.m. When 9:30 a.m. came and went, we began chattering amongst ourselves, wondering what was taking so long.

We waited…and waited…and waited. Finally, ten o'clock arrived, the large glass doors opened, and out stepped two husky men in suits, followed by a woman; Bethann Hardison. I was very excited to see Hardison because she is a very influential figure in the modeling industry. She is most notably known for managing the male super-model Tyson Beckford. We assumed she was working with Combs to cast his show. Once the models noticed the doors opening, we shook off the snow from our coats, and started inching forward. And then everything changed.

She made an announcement that the casting was over. That they had "picked from the line".

She then instructed the models who were "picked from the line" to come up front. Well, ALL the models walked up front and many of them shouted, "This isn't fair!"

There were echoes of "I don't believe this!" floating in the air. One model broke down; she was clearly upset, and in tears questioned Hardison as to why we were not given a chance to audition. Hardison tried to explain how they were conducting the casting, but it didn't help. We all felt mislead and cheated. Eventually, Hardison disappeared into the building. We were left outside in disbelief and disappointment.

Then things got ugly.

From the booming voice a husky man in a suit, came a warning, "Yo, the casting is over, ya'll got to clear the front of the building!"

The models talked amongst themselves in a state of shock. Some got on their cell phones; I imagine calling their agent. We weren't moving quickly enough for the man at the door; so he shouted the instruction again, and even said he'd called NYPD if necessary. He was extremely rude and disrespectful.

One male model in particular, made his way to the front, and began asking why we couldn't audition. The model and the man at the door exchanged words. The man began to walk swiftly towards the model, leading the model not only away from the building, but into the street. The model walked back on the sidewalk. Then, in a split second, four or five men rushed out the building, one of them ramming into the model's stomach. We all stood there in shock. One model called 911 on her cell phone. The entire scene was unreal! Once an ambulance arrived, and the model was checked out, the models began to leave. Many pretty heads were shaking back and forth in disbelief.

We all left with profound looks of disappointment on our faces. Nevertheless, my one hour commute paled in comparison to the models that traveled several hours to audition for Sean John. Yet I too felt mislead and cheated.

Whenever I go on an audition, not matter if I land the gig or not, I try to remain positive. The modeling and acting industry is very subjective. And for Black models and actors it may seem that our opportunities are limited. Nevertheless, I know that no one can take away the blessings that God has in store for me. No one!

For the believer, your blessings have your name on it. The word of God says that "No weapon formed against you shall prosper." –Isaiah 54:17

If you attended the Sean John casting and was let down, don't allow it to stop you from pursuing your dreams. Stay positive. Carry yourself with a spirit of excellence and dignity. And never let the foolishness of others bring you down to their level. Be the bigger person. No matter how hard that may be. And know this: God never closes one door without opening another one.

While it is true, that in this industry, you are more often rejected than accepted, what can make an audition worth while is the chance to showcase your talent. And the more you audition the more exposure you give yourself. Until one day you are actually cast! Contrary to what many people believe, the inner-circle of the entertainment world is very small. So when you attend a casting, and present yourself with excellence; even if you don't get the part, there's a possibility that the casting director/representative will consider you for another gig. That's the upside of auditioning. Hope.

Despite this shameful and foolish incident, my dreams are not bruised. There's a gospel song that kept ringing in my ear on my train ride home that day:

"Sometimes you have to encourage yourself. Sometimes you have to speak victory during the test. No matter how you feel. Speak a word and you will be healed. …the enemy created walls, just remember giants they do fall… Speak over yourself. Encourage yourself in the Lord." – Donald Lawrence Presents The Tri-City Singers

Aspiring models, never allow anyone to be a dream thief. Every opportunity that God has in store for you belongs only to you. All you must do is remain faithful and persevere. Even in the midst of disappointment you must remain a victor and not a victim. God has a plan and his plans ALWAYS succeed. I encourage you to submit your dreams to God. The bible says, "Commit your works to the Lord and your plans will succeed." –Proverbs 16:3

Prayer changes things. Prayer also can turn a dream into a vision.

My prayers for my career sound something like this: "God thank you for blessing me with so many creative talents. You know the desires of my heart; and I pray that you will grant them to me, according to your will, not mines. Show me what you want me to do. Show me how I can use my talents as a service to you and not simply a gratification for myself. Bless me according to the plan you have for my life. Please open doors that I can not open by myself. And close doors that could lead me down a dangerous path. My plans are great in my eyes, but your plans for me are not only greater, but better."

God knows all about my hopes and dreams. He knows about yours too!

I doubt this is the first horrible audition in history and it may not be the last. But it was important for me to share my experience about this Sean John fashion show casting. I don't like seeing people being hurt and mistreated. A lot of models were emotionally hurt that day. And sadly one physically so. It was uncalled for!

It's possible that Diddy was not aware of what was going on. Hopefully someone from his staff will learn of the incident and make sure it never happens again. And hopefully the next time he post a casting, he'll do what's right, and allow all the models who show up, to audition. If American Idol can sit through thousands of singers, surely he can see every model as well.

When I shared this experience with a friend, who happens to be the director/producer of Detroit Fashion Week, one thing he said really hit home: "People won't treat us any better than we treat ourselves."

I hope this blog has encouraged you not to give up. Your day will come. And so will mines. Keep auditioning and keep your faith. See you at the top!

Be blessed and stay encouraged,

Mahogany Reynolds